Grief. It can take so many forms that you often don't know how you’ll react until you live through it. That's OK. There are no wrong or right ways to approach grief. All you can do is try to deal with your feelings in a way that feels right.
If you're trying to support a family member or friend, figuring out the right things to say or do can seem daunting. Luckily, you've already taken the first step towards helping them simply through the act of caring. But sometimes, you might wish to do more to show support.
Some people feel a sense of support through a thoughtful gift like a card or flowers. Others respond better to you just taking the time to sit, reflect and share stories with them.
Grief is hard to take on alone, and you don't need to (and often shouldn't) go at it alone. You might be hesitant to ask others for help, which is why many find these interactive videos helpful in exploring their emotions and feelings. Dr. Virginia Simpson is an Executive Counseling Director who created a set of online grief resources to help you cope in the way that feels right to you. She takes you through the dimensions and dynamics of grief, helping you to discover coping techniques that heal and encourage you to move forward.
Children may not understand the details and specifics, but they can often surprise you with their sensitivity and instinctual way of detecting grief. As the adult, you want to find ways to help them celebrate the life of your loved one and enjoy happy memories and stories.
The most important way to support your family is to listen to them and pay close attention to the feelings and needs of younger ones. If you sense any profound behavior change, talk to them to get to the root of their feelings.
For additional help, refer to this great resource from Sesame Street, which will help your family move forward in a healthy and educated manner.
Supporting your friends and family does not have to be complicated. Here are just a few powerful ways you can show support to your loved ones during this difficult time:
No one should have to experience grief alone. If you're having a hard time, reach out to friends and family and tell them that you need them there. There's no shame in asking for help.
If you want to help support a loved one in need, just let them know that you're there for them, at any hour, for anything. If you need additional help, check out our grief support resources.
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